Tuesday, March 3, 2009 {}
just back from malaysia!
:)
went back since last thurs.
and supposed to be coming back on sunday,
but something cropped up.
so came back on monday instead.
with my mum.
main purpose is to visit my grandmum,
so didn't do much shopping.
plus cousin was working,
so no one drives me out.
though i'm also a driver,
but cant drive without my cousin...
:(
anyway,
went melacca on sat,
cos my cousin managed to take his leave.
:)
nothing much.
i'm not that kind who LOVES shopping.
so just normal walk around
only get things that i need
but nice chatting with my cousin. :)
i'm glad that even we are in two different countries,
yet we are so close.
perhaps we are of the same age.
but we are totally different character and personalities.
he's damn good in studies, while i just want to pass my exams will do.
one thing similar: we put friends way above ourself :)
he told me things that even his parents don't know.
and he actually teared while chatting in car.
but i understand why he actually cried.
perhaps is due to two different countires too,
singapore was said to be a safe country,
at least compared to malaysia.
so there were two different between my mum and his mum, which is my aunt.
my mum felt safe for me to go home late,
as long as i call home to inform her that i will be home late.
even though i'm a girl.
while my aunt felt super unsafe for him if he didn't reach home on time.
even though he drives.
he cant stay out late without permission.
and he is a guy!
that is the problem.
sometimes i'm proud of him,
but i pity him at times.
:(
alright,
enough of him.
i might be seeing him soon again :)
perhaps people learn to cherish after losing something.
after another cousin of mine passed away last year,
somehow i learnt the importance of relationship.
this relationship was built since young.
easy to build,
hard to maintain.
distance is not an excuse,
is whether did you put in effort.
is the thoughts that counts.
even a sms counts.
:)
perhaps it will be harder for us to meet up next time,
cos i'm starting work soon,
while he is going to further his studies too.
but i will do my best to maintain!
:)
i'm trying to solve another problem.
this time round,
is mummy.
nights everyone.
:)